电影进行到一家人出车祸的场景的时候,我意识到这是一个从濒死体验为切入点思考人生的片子。联想到另一个类似的片子是Lovely Bone,充满亲情,回忆。
我不禁思考,是什么支撑我们活下来?我们的过去,还是我们的未来?还是那些我们爱的人?
活着的时候,我们从来没有意识到我们拥有着如此多的东西:爱我们的爸妈、男友、弟弟、闺蜜、爷爷奶奶;还有全力去追求的爱好。当我们要失去他们的时候,我们回忆起他们的点点滴滴,会不会全力的与命运生死抗争去留在他们身边呢。
当女主知道父母弟弟全都死了之后,她一度放弃了求生的意志。虽然waiting room里面坐满了满脸悲痛、疲惫又虔诚期盼女孩醒过来的亲朋好友;虽然他外公在病床旁,强忍住刻骨的悲痛对女孩说:我想让你活下来...但是如果太难,你累了,想放弃,我也理解;虽然知道自己离开会让男友痛不欲生;虽然。。。。但是,如果生死边缘挣扎一遭醒过来,发现自己成了孤儿,这残酷的现实也许比死去更加痛苦吧。
有的时候,选择生反而比选择死更需要勇气。
结尾的时候
We, grown-ups, seems to be stubbornly convinced that young adult stories are stupid, and only teenagers themselves will be silly enough to fall in love with this kind of "so-called" romantic novels.
For that we already knew the transitory characteristic of love. We understand it, crystal clear, right from the beginning of the film that their love story might not even live through the winter, they are not going to survive the long distance after high school, not to mention that the post-traumatic stress our heroine must deal with as long as she wake up after the car accident(, though this is the story in its sequel 'Where She Went'). We know that, time itself might bring an end to the relationship between this young man and this young woman.
《如果我留下》一般般!To be, or not to be
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